“Who should reconcile first?”

“If you’re the victim, is reconciling your responsibility?”

A recent conversation highlighted the question above, who’s responsibility is it to reconcile between the violator and victim? A just world obviously points to the violator as the person to apologize and seek reconciliation, but we know the world is not just. Life has never been fair, nor will itsever be. God, however, is just and his judgements and commandments are all right. He says to seek out the person who may have a problem with you and make it right. Essentially, if thequestion comes to your head, “Who first?” Then the answer is clear. You. If you are thinking it, then you are responsible for the part that is yours… Whether that be an apology or open arms… Exonerate yourself through love, humility, and determination to stay clear and true to yourself and others.

Don’t ask…do.

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About Keila Harris

An MBA graduate with an unparalleled ability to keep a team focused on the goal with clear deliverables to produce for specific results. I am a self-starter. I began a nonprofit organization in 2012 called the DBMH Project, Inc. and then authored a book as well. I love the intersection of business and technology and solving problems alongside colleagues dedicated to their work. I like to focus on growth strategies through SMART goals and accountability. I believe power is in the execution of constant learning and open, humble self-improvement. Therefore I read incessantly and expand my network at every opportunity. #PayItForward #SuccessIsTheJourney

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