“Who should reconcile first?”
“If you’re the victim, is reconciling your responsibility?”
A recent conversation highlighted the question above, who’s responsibility is it to reconcile between the violator and victim? A just world obviously points to the violator as the person to apologize and seek reconciliation, but we know the world is not just. Life has never been fair, nor will itsever be. God, however, is just and his judgements and commandments are all right. He says to seek out the person who may have a problem with you and make it right. Essentially, if thequestion comes to your head, “Who first?” Then the answer is clear. You. If you are thinking it, then you are responsible for the part that is yours… Whether that be an apology or open arms… Exonerate yourself through love, humility, and determination to stay clear and true to yourself and others.